I have acne. The big cystic kind. I get them on my chin and when I do it causes my face to swell from my ear, along my jaw-line to my chin. I have to take antibiotics when I get one and it makes eating, drinking and talking excruciating. I cannot begin to tell you what it does for my confidence and self-esteem (or lack of) when I have to go out with my face swollen up.
I have a whole other post in my mind about this topic, some things I'd like to share about my acne journey. But for tonight I have a rant.
I was mooching about on Facebook when I came across a post of someone who had taken a picture of themselves, and then used one of those apps to distort it. You know the type, where it stretches and twists you into a caricature of yourself? Only this one imposed big blistering spots all over the face. Huge red cysts. As if that wasn't bad enough, the number of people who had 'liked' and commented laughing and joking about it was incredible.
I wanted to shout, 'No, you have no idea what that is like in reality. I have that. It is painful, it hurts physically and mentally, and it is NOT something to be laughed at'.
And I'm afraid I'm going to get more ranty now. Why is it that acne is an ailment that people feel it is ok to laugh and joke about? I don't see anyone distorting their face with 'eczema-app' or 'psoriasis-app' (both of which members of my family have). No, I don't see that because it would be cruel and unkind. Why then is it ok to make fun of acne?
One comment said 'Ha ha looks as though you've been on the wine/chocolate!'. Wine and chocolate? Oh right, is that all I have to do to stop getting acne then? So it is a result of that is it? It is totally self-inflicted is it? Or is it something that no matter what food stuff I cut out, no matter how many pints of water I drink a day, no matter how much exercise I do and how I try to manage my stress, I STILL get?
OK, and breathe. Apologies my dear reader, I don't mean to get all shouty about it. I guess I am upset and hurt, that one of my Facebook 'friends' posted this, that another laughed and commented, that people joked about it, and that acne still seems to be one of the last ailments that people feel free and able to make fun of.
Enough of the ranting, I'm off to 'hide' some statuses....
I'm not surprised you feel upset over it, I think most of us would if we suffered from acne to the degree you do.
ReplyDeleteIt is surprising how some things seem "okay" to take the piss out of, I'm not saying they are, I get totally narked when people comment about the birthmarks on my sons face, people really should just learn to keep hush!
Hope you're feeling better, try not to let them get to you, their ignorance shines through with their silly comments.
Thanks Amanda. I'm sorry to hear you've had comments on your son's birthmark. I bet he's totally gorgeous :)
DeleteIt is just so unbelievable to me that people feel they can laugh and say what they want. I feel calmer about it now, and actually feel sorry for them.
Thank you for reading my post x
I get acne too. 39 years old and I've had it since I was 12. I've been on medication more or less continually since I was 16. I'm currently testing out an expensive natural therapy, thanks to my blog. I get eczema too and it is supposed to help with that. You can read posts on my blog - search acne http://mumofthreeworld.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteI'm with you on the 'hilarious' Facebook pics. I've not come across an acne one, but I had a right rant on my blog about someone calling skinny people bitches. Grrr!
Hi Sarah Thank you for your reply. I have tried searching your lovely blog under acne but it says nothing found. Can you let me know what or when the post was? I would love to read more about it. I'm currently having acupuncture for it - I'm very lucky that my mum covers the cost otherwise it would be a no-no. Have had some success.
DeleteAs for calling skinny people names - why do some people feel that they can comment like that? So judgemental. Grrr indeed xx
Hello, here goes... My very first acne post from a year ago http://mumofthreeworld.blogspot.co.uk/2012/03/unhealthy.html
ReplyDeletePondering treatment from the hospital... http://mumofthreeworld.blogspot.co.uk/2012/11/sledgehammer-to-crack-nut.html
Being offered a fancy, expensive thing to sort it out...
http://mumofthreeworld.blogspot.co.uk/2013/01/acne-solution.html
Wondering how I'm going to fit the fancy expensive thing into my life...
http://mumofthreeworld.blogspot.co.uk/2013/01/low-maintenance.html
I will post about how I get on with the fancy, expensive thing in a few weeks. I've never tried or considered acupuncture, but I might give that a go too!
Just for good measure, my rant about offensive facebook pictures...
http://mumofthreeworld.blogspot.co.uk/2013/01/no-one-likes-skinny-sober-bitch.html
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Just realised that although I swapped tweets with you I haven't replied here. Thanks so so much for the links. Am dying to know how you are getting on with the expensive thing. I can't figure out how it works for acne! Let me know when post an update? Thanks again lovely xx
DeleteHi ya, oh hun, I suffered with acne thru stress. It came quickly marching across my face and back. While it lasted it was soul destroying and confidence crippling. Never apologise 4 writing a RANT regards this and good on u 4 having a shout. X
ReplyDeleteOh thank you lovely. I really appreciate you saying that. I'm sorry to hear that you too have had this. But so delighted that you have waved goodbye to it :)
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